Original post: Friday, August 1, 2001
Contract (kŏn’trăkt’) n.
1. a. An agreement between two or more parties, especially one that is written and enforceable by law. b. The writing or document containing such an agreement.
2. The branch of law dealing with formal agreements between parties.
3. Marriage as a formal agreement; betrothal.
Now that’s one way of looking at it. Ever thought of having contracts in life? Personal / life contracts? It’s something I learned about yesterday. I’ve always known this, just never looked at it this way before.
Everything happens for a reason. You’ve heard that many, many times and it’s one of the biggest clichés you’ll ever hear, but it’s true. Everything DOES happen for a reason. It’s difficult to believe that when something bad happens and no matter what people tell you – you just do not understand WHY it happened.
It has a lot to do with your own mindset, how you CHOOSE to deal with it. How you CHOOSE to look at it. Don’t get me wrong, it will still hurt, because we are human and we do get hurt.
Like the air you breathe, abundance in all things is available to you. Your life will simply be as good as you allow it to be.
Everybody has contracts in their life. Contracts with different people and things that are meant to happen in their life. I know, it sounds airy fairy and I’m a sceptic when it comes to many of these things.
SO! How does it work and how ARE you meant to look at these contracts? I’ve been through many ups and downs in my life, sometimes I hide it… maybe to protect myself in a way or maybe I want people to think I’m a happy person instead of a sad one? Don’t worry, I am happy! everybody has their ups and downs and I really think that you can choose how you accept everything and how you choose to deal with it.
EVERYBODY HURTS. Everybody has their own stuff. We’re all human beings with feelings and those feelings do get hurt. As long as you remember that even the things that hurt you – even if it’s a person who did something to you – it’s a contract you have with them. It was meant to happen. Of course it doesn’t make sense all the time, but do yourself a favor and try to look at it that way.
When you look a situation, it’s much easier to see the “bad things” instead of the good. Once you’ve worked through a situation and you look back at it, there’s usually something good about it. It might not be that specific situation, but something that happened as a result of the “bad situation”. There’s always a little bit of sunshine after the rain.
Many people focus upon unwanted things, with no deliberate attention to the emotional guidance within them, and then they try to compensate for their lackful thinking with physical action. And because of the misalignment of energy, they do not get results from their action, so then they try harder by offering more action, but still things do not improve.
It becomes extremely difficult when you have to deal with contracts that involve things such as cancer. Nobody can explain why people suffer from cancer and why we lose so many loved ones due to cancer. I don’t want to be the person to tell you, it’s a good thing, it happens and it happened for a reason – because I’ve dealt with this before and it hurts and it’s the type of pain that nobody can take away. Never will I say it’s going to be easy, because nothing in life is easy – well, at least not many.
Just remember. We LEARN from every situation that we have to deal with. When we learn, we GROW and we become a better version of who we already are.
After all, that’s what life is about, LEARNING and trying to be the best YOU that you can be, not the person you are expected to be, but the person you want to be.
Never forget your dreams, set your goals, believe in your visions and always remember to ACCEPT your dreams / goals / visions. If you do not accept those, it’ll turn into insecurities. Most of the time it doesn’t happen immediately and it usually doesn’t happen the way we thought it would. As long as you stick to what you WANT, you will eventually get there. In the meantime you just have to be ready to deal with all the contracts.
Being the sceptic that I am – I went for energy healing yesterday. It definitely changed my mindset, how I think about everything that I had to deal with (and some, still have to deal with) in my life. It’s good to be open to new things, part of the learning process.
Dream your dreams. TALK about it, LIVE it and BELIEVE in my new favorite thing… ABUNDANCE!
Photo: Our farm, December 25, 2007. A place where you always feel at home and peaceful. Have you ever experienced absolute silence?
This has been a whirlwind of a week, mostly good.
These are the results of a tantrum. Today started off a little weird, then all of a sudden it felt like everything was caving in – thanks to people and their selfish ways (mostly). Lately at work I tell everyone – well, just about everyone – everything. So they know by now that I do not take most things seriously and when something ‘serious’ happens, I get over it very quickly.
